Confetti Elves: A Family Tradition of Kindness & Cheer
- confettispotco
- Nov 6
- 3 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
When my daughter was little, our family started a new tradition — Confetti Elves!
Each December, our elves arrive to sprinkle kindness (and a little confetti!) around the house. Every morning, they leave a small note with a thoughtful or fun activity — simple ways to connect, give back, and celebrate the season together.
What started as a few handwritten notes has grown into one of our favorite parts of the holidays. It’s not about doing something big every day — it’s about slowing down, creating little sparks of joy, and reminding each other what this season is really about.
The holiday season moves fast, and sometimes, it’s easy to forget the small moments of magic that make it special — the laughter in the kitchen, the twinkle lights at night, the feeling of doing something kind just because. That’s where our Confetti Elves come in.
They help us press pause. Smile more. Do good. And find wonder in the ordinary.
The Confetti Elf Arrival
On December 1st, our elves make a magical arrival — sometimes they bring a tiny advent calendar, other times a little table setup with cheerful decorations, treats, and of course… a sprinkle of confetti.
You can make it as simple or as elaborate as you want — the goal isn’t perfection, it’s creating a moment of excitement and joy to kick off the month.
How It Works
Each morning, the elves leave a note or mini activity — something fun, thoughtful, or festive.These notes can be printed, handwritten, or tucked into a tiny envelope for your child to discover.
Think of them as daily invitations to do something small but meaningful — from sharing kindness to making memories together.
Here’s how to start your own Confetti Elf tradition:
The elves “arrive” on December 1st with a surprise or advent calendar.
Each day, they leave a note or mini activity (acts of kindness, family fun, or festive cheer).
Keep it flexible — you can plan ahead, mix in spontaneous ideas, or reuse favorites each year.
The goal: spread kindness like confetti — everywhere you go.
30+ Confetti Elf Ideas
Need a little inspiration? Here are 30+ Confetti Elf ideas to get you started — a mix of acts of kindness, family fun, and just-for-fun adventures that make December feel extra special.
Acts of Kindness
Donate a toy for a child in need.
Leave a thank-you note for your mail carrier or delivery driver.
Compliment three people today.
Hold the door open for someone.
Leave a few dollars taped to a vending machine with a note.
Make cards for a local nursing home.
Pick up 10 things that aren’t yours today.
Surprise your teacher with a handmade note.
Bake cookies for a neighbor.
Write down three things you’re grateful for and share them at dinner.
Family Fun & Creativity
Decorate the tree while blasting Christmas music.
Create a holiday art or craft project together.
Family Fun Night: Christmas movie marathon!
Make gingerbread houses or cookies.
Family game night — Christmas edition.
Paint Night: holiday ornaments or wooden signs.
Build a blanket fort and read holiday books inside.
Write and perform a silly Christmas skit.
Hot Cocoa Bar Night!
Make your pet a Christmas stocking or treat.
Just-for-Fun Elf Adventures
Candy Cane Hunt! (Hide 5–10 candy canes around the house.)
Confetti Elves bring “Elf Kisses” (Hershey’s Kisses).
Mini snowball fight! (Use cotton balls or soft pom poms.)
Build a fort and have a Christmas picnic inside.
Christmas Pajama Party!
Confetti Elves left a puzzle to do together.
Family Karaoke — sing your favorite holiday song.
Confetti Elves Challenge: make a snowflake out of paper!
Leave a trail of confetti from the elves’ hiding spot to a surprise.
Secret Santa mission — do something kind without being caught.
Confetti Elves farewell note + Christmas Eve Box tradition.
Saying Goodbye: Christmas Eve Magic
On Christmas Eve, our elves leave a farewell note — sometimes tucked inside a “Christmas Eve Box” with matching pajamas, hot cocoa, and a book to read together before bed.
It’s the sweetest reminder that kindness doesn’t end with the season — it’s something we can carry with us all year long.
Why We Love It
The Confetti Elf tradition is simple, adaptable, and heart-centered. It’s a low-pressure, high-impact way to make December meaningful.
It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing what matters.
Here’s to spreading kindness like confetti this holiday season.
Till Next Time,
Holly
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